Dear Shell,
I met this guy who I am so crazy about. He came over to my house
once. We talked and he seem to be the perfect man. But there is
one problem he has a girlfriend! He says he is not all that
happy. He told me we would see each other again but I haven't
seen him. I made efforts to see him but he has not responded.
What should I do?
Dear Friend,
I can only tell you that if he
has a girlfriend forget him. I deal with hundreds of women who
are in so much pain and anguish because of a cheating spouse or
boyfriend that I have to ask you to put yourself in their
position, if it was your boyfriend and he was meeting with
another girl behind your back how would you feel? The fact that
he is not responding should be enough to move on. I know how it
can hurt but one meeting really isn't enough to determine if
someone is "the perfect man" - With a heart that is capable of
loving as much as yours obviously is, I know there is a
"perfect" one out there that doesn't belong to another and is
JUST for you! Hangin there sis, he will find YOU!
