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Volume III Issue 5
Christmas Edition
December 2, 2007
 
Dear Michele,
 
Hello! A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS to you! This is by far my favorite time of the year and it has little to do with the presents I find under the tree on Christmas morning. Over the past several years Christmas has come to mean so much more to me than the gifts.  The festivities that surround the celebration of our Saviors birth are sacred and important to me and my family.  
 
This past month has been totally unbelievable in all areas. It is as if The Lord opened the windows of Heaven and let the blessings pour over us! Just4Ladies welcomes over 500 new members and almost 200 of those members are brand new Christians! We've had people from all different faiths take our hand and step into the Lord's family. From Buddhists to Muslims, so many were searching for more and found it when they invited Jesus into their hearts.  Our ministry has been blessed incredibly this month and we've encountered many angels over the past several weeks who have made it possible to expand and do more! God has been so good to us and we are humbled and thankful beyons words for how directly He has answered our prayers. Thank You Father!
 
It took me 30 years to really and truly appreciate Christmas for what it is. The first Christmas of my Christian walk - December of 1999 - I was reading a story about Emmanual "God with us" and the true meaning of the name came to life in my heart and has made its home there ever since.  How profound! "God with us!"  It sure does make a lot more sense than a "Black Friday" when so many people rush the local Wal-Mart for a five-dollar toaster or a good deal on another electronic gadget or "Cyber -Monday" when the world overloads the Internet to get those early shopping deals.  When did we allow ourselves to fall for the commercialism that has stripped us of CHRISTMAS and turned it into "The holiday Season"?  I decided a long time ago that if a retailer wants my money from CHRISTMAS shopping they had better be prepared to refer to this season as the CHRISTmas season...anything less than that causes me to boycott the store! Why? Becuase I am offended and instead of complaining about it, I hit 'em where it hurts the most...in their pocket!
 
I decided 8 years ago that i was going to treat this day for what it was, it is the celebration of God being WITH us in the flesh over 2000 years ago.
 
Shouldn't the celebration at least include Him? YES! It should, and in our house it does. Oh, I still bake and shop and wrap and decorate, but all the while when I am doing these things I believe that it is in preperation to celebrate the most magnificent birthday in human history!  If I will go all out for one of my family members, you had better believe I am going to go all out for The one who saved me from myself, refined me and willed me an inheritence I can't even fathom!
 
In my opinion, this wonderful time of year is the one time when everyone is truly trying to achieve peace and harmony. Oh the joy of being able to celebrate with my family and friends! To feel the excitement and love that comes with giving those special gifts, to be someones Christmas miracle or at least a part of it. I believe that this is what The Lord wants from us, to celebrate this holy season with a heart of joy, kindness, and love. To look upon each other and even strangers and all mankind with a heart of giving and generosity and to not take one moment of these magical days for granted. I believe this is the greatest gift I can give my Savior on His birthday!
 
I don't know if the Lord can smell the sweet smells of cookies and other treats that lingers in my kitchen early every December; but I believe He is well pleased with me for the extra mile I LOVE to go when I am sharing those things with friends and family and even strangers.
 
How I pray we can all try to  reflect the Jesus side of ourselves this Christmas season and beyond!
 
 
 
 
 
 
In This Issue
Dose of Devotion - The Jesus Side of Me!
J4L Bits N Pieces
Coming Events
Forgetta 'bout It - By Rocco Morelli
The Jesus Side of Me- By Shell Washam 
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The Christmas season is a perfect time to see the Jesus side of everyone and it's also a good time to see the opposite side too.  Unfortunately, a lot of times we experience the non-Jesus side of Christians.

Maintaining a positive, walking, talking Christian walk can be a difficult thing in our world; but just because the world chooses to go the opposite way doesn't mean that those of us who have chosen not to go down that wide and well traveled path have to imitate the same behaviors or actions. Two wrongs never make a right.

 My Jesus side starts right here at the center of my heart and spreads to everything I do, everyone my life touches and everywhere I go. It's a LOT of hard work to always show my Jesus side. It often involves reluctantly letting go of some prayer answers that I always find out later were never going to be good for me in the first place, it involves smiling and offering a kind word when I really want to strike- back and curse a person, it especially means avoiding situations I know I am not spiritually strong enough to deal with until the Lord has made me strong enough to deal with them and many other things that I deal with every single day of my life.

The Jesus side of us is the side we need to show when we are alone as well as in a crowd of people.  Who we are behind closed doors is the definition of our character. Do you show your Jesus side when you're alone and away from friends and family? Can you look in the mirror each morning or at the end of each day and like who you see? There are days that I don't like the answer to that question.

As almost all of you know, I am a passionate person about the things I believe in. I don't  feel this way only when I'm writing newsletters or speaking on the radio, or teaching a class, I am passionate about my beliefs and the jobs the lord has blessed me with all the time.  Are you? Or do you ride on the excitement of the moment when it comes to serving God and then lose your drive when the spotlights are shut off?  Do you feel a burst of joy and faith and hit the message boards declaring that you believe God is answering, shouting praises to His Holy name and then the second the toe of doubt crosses the door to your heart you are right back talking about giving up?  That seems like and awfully stormy and uncertain ride through life!

Showing our Jesus side is our purpose for being here! It is our soul reason for living.

Say What? I can just hear the gasps from the marriage and relationship standers who have spent the last several months believing their whole purpose was to live for the moment their "lost love" returns. Sorry guys, some things come before restoration.

We are all sufferers on a journey towards the perfection of our character and soul, not only for the purpose of changing into who God needs us to be in our marriage but mostly for the purpose of attracting those who do not know Him! Are you doing this? Are you wearing your Jesus side every day?

Do you live life's moments with your Jesus side on and do as He would do in all situations or is your focus mostly on the person who has abandon you for the moment?  This is a question that so many of us don't want to answer because deep in our hearts we know we're cheating God out of his rightful and well deserved devotion.  That's OK, there is still time to reroute your course and in doing so, the end results of your situation will be simply magnificent! 

No one knows more than I how hard it is to get through the holidays without the PERSON you love. This dreaded feeling in your heart is the devil's way of taking YOUR attention off of the true meaning of this special season. 

Have you ever heard the song Oh Holy Night? I'm sure you have. Well, the other day while listening to the lyrics of that song I was humbled to the point of tears,

"Long lay the world in sin and error pining."

"Till He appeared and the soul felt it's worth"

"A thrill of hope and weary world rejoices"

"For yonder breaks a new and glorious morn"

And then, the chorus was sung and in an instant I felt the true weight and the full impact of all God has done for mankind.

"fall on your knees, and hear the angels voices"

Instead of falling to our knees in total unconditional and unsurrendered gratitude for the gift of hope Emmanuel gave us, we are rioting over toasters.  

Two thousand years ago, The lord of Heaven and earth, the creator of all things showed His love for us by choosing to be with us, and two-thousand years later, we have, in our self-centered and arrogant way, chosen to put everything BUT Him first.  We have allowed ourselves to believe that a man, woman, material things, jobs, etc. are actually more important and more necessary than a complete relationship with The One Who has made it possible for us to love and enjoy the blessings we do have.  Then we wonder why our prayers go unanswered for so long.  I said it before and I'll say it again, some things come before marriage and relationship restoration.  During this CHRISTmas season will you choose to focus on and hurt over the person who has abandon you or will you focus on The One who will never abandon you and celebrate His birthday in a way that He is worthy?  Will you show your Jesus side always this Christmas and beyond? I hope so!

God forgive us and please, help us to always show our Jesus side! Help us to fall to our knees and let the true meaning of this advent season help us to see that before restoration of a marriage or relationship we have to have restoration of the most important relationship in our lives, our relationship with You.

Until we meet again-simply believe!

 
 
J4L Bit's 'N Pieces
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When: Tuesday at 8:30 PM
Topic:  Breakthrough with author Sarah Gobel
 
Author Sarah Goebel will be joining us on Tuesday evening to share her ministry and new online university! Don't miss it!
Call in and talk to Sarah LIVE.
 
Sarah Goebel is the author of "The Satisfied Woman"
 
 
Forgetta 'bout It - Author Rocco Morelli - Live at West End Baptist Church!
 
Sunday December 16, 2007
 
For those of you who are in the local, east Tennessee area, we will be hosting Rocco Morelli, author of the book Forgetta 'bout It at the West End Baptist Church on December 16th. Please come out and listen to his incredible testimony of how he went from Mafia to Ministry and be sure to have him sign a copy of his book for you! Visit Rocco's web site
www.Forgettaboutit.org to read more.
 
COMING EVENTS!!
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JUST A TOUCH OF LOVE WEBINAR!
 
In February, Just4Ladies will be hosting an online seminar (Webinar)and we'll be welcoming people from around the world! We're SUPER excited about the webinar which is going to address the topic of marriage and family restoration. We are able to host 1,000 online guests and we have already over two-thirds booked so please, register early to guarantee your participation. I have offered a discount to those of you registering early. You can pre-register for $35. This is an INTERACTIVE event which means you can ask questions and actively particpate.
 
Go to www.just4ladies.com/webinars to pre-register.
 
ROCCO MORELLI
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At the age of 15, Rocco Morelli was already on his way up the ladder of life in the big time.  A hometown Mafia "prince" with family roots that sink deep into organized crime, Morelli is cursed to repeat the sins of his fathers until his life-changing encounter with the only man who can stand up to him:  Jesus Christ.  Join in Morelli's exciting transformation from playboy gangster to mob politician to God's man, finding identity and protection in the #1 family in the universe.

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